A woman sits in an exam room describing exhaustion she can't shake. Her hair is thinning. Her joints ache. Her digestion is off. She's been to multiple doctors, asked for labs, and been told everything looks normal. Then she walks out with a prescription for an antidepressant. She's not depressed. She loves her life. She just can't live it anymore.
I hear a version of this story at the pharmacy almost every week, and my guest Dr. Sakina Davis sees it every single day in her functional medicine practice. In my conversation with her on The Trusted Pharmacist, we dug into why so many of these women actually have an undiagnosed autoimmune condition, and what it really takes to find it.
Why the System Defaults to "You're Depressed"
Dr. Davis was honest about something most providers won't say out loud. She was taught in medical school that a woman showing up with a bunch of vague complaints probably has underlying depression or anxiety. That was the actual training. It's not a few bad doctors. It's how the system teaches people to think.
Now stack the insurance model on top of that. A typical visit gets you maybe ten minutes. You can't untangle years of fatigue, gut changes, and inflammation in ten minutes, so the system grabs the fastest answer available. Usually that's a prescription that band-aids the symptom while the real fire keeps burning underneath.
Dr. Davis spends 45 minutes to an hour on an initial consultation, because that's what it actually takes. What triggered this? A recent infection? COVID? A move? Years of overwork? An autoimmune condition doesn't start the day it shows up in the office. By then it's usually been building for years.
What You Actually Need to Know
The warning signs people write off as aging
Dr. Davis listed the patterns that make her dig deeper: fatigue you can't explain, hair falling out, skin that's suddenly dry or changing, joint inflammation, bowels that aren't acting like they used to. Family history matters too, since conditions like Hashimoto's and rheumatoid arthritis run in families.
She's also seeing conditions that barely existed when she trained 20 years ago, POTS and MCAS being the big ones. POTS is a good example of why people miss the connection. When your heart races just from standing up, "immune system" is the last thing you'd suspect. But that's exactly what's driving it.
And if you're 45 and telling yourself this is just getting older, Dr. Davis has a message for you: 45 is not old, and none of this is normal.
Testing beyond the basic panel
A standard workup gets you a metabolic panel, a CBC, maybe a TSH. That will not catch autoimmunity. Dr. Davis runs an expanded thyroid panel with antibodies, plus an ANA, a sed rate, and inflammation markers like hs-CRP and IL-6.
If you have Hashimoto's, pay attention to this one. Some doctors now run thyroid antibodies, see elevated numbers, and tell patients it's fine, just part of the condition. It's not fine. Those antibodies are a marker you can track. Dr. Davis has watched them fall from 500 to 200 to 70 as a patient's protocol worked. When that number is dropping, you know the inflammation is genuinely coming down instead of just being masked.
The gut is where much of this starts
Your gut is home to your immune system's front line. Every bite you take, it has to make a call: friend or foe. When the gut lining is under constant assault from ultra-processed food, glyphosate residue, and the chemicals in everyday products, the immune system starts losing its ability to tell the difference. That's the setup for autoimmunity.
It's why comprehensive stool testing is a cornerstone of Dr. Davis's practice. One finding surprises almost everybody: the test can show whether you're digesting your food at all. She sees undigested meat and vegetable fibers every day, often in people eating a genuinely good diet. If your enzymes aren't breaking food down, you're not absorbing the nutrients you're paying for.
Low dose naltrexone: calming the immune system without shutting it off
A biologic basically sends your immune system to the corner. That stops the attack, but it also leaves you more prone to infection, and over the long haul that worries Dr. Davis, especially when a 30-year-old gets put on one.
Low dose naltrexone works differently. It's a compounded prescription that modulates the immune system instead of suppressing it. An underactive immune system gets support. An overactive one gets calmed down. Dosing is highly individual, anywhere from 0.25 mg up to 4 mg, and we titrate slowly. As a compounding pharmacist, I can tell you the starting doses keep getting lower. Start too high and you'll often see side effects like vivid dreams. That doesn't mean LDN isn't for you. It usually just means the dose was more than your body needed.
Vitamin D: cheap, essential, and almost always done wrong
Optimizing vitamin D is one of the cheapest, most underused moves in immune health. Dr. Davis targets a level of 60 to 80, and for most people that means supplementing somewhere between 2,000 and 10,000 IU daily with monitoring. Patients tell me all the time, "I'm taking vitamin D." My first question is always, when did you last check your level? You could still be low. You could be too high. You need the right amount, and the only way to know is to test.
Take it with a meal that has fat in it. Swallowing your vitamins on an empty stomach on the way out the door is one of the most common mistakes I see at the counter. I like vitamin D in the morning alongside omega-3s, since the fat helps absorption and the omega-3s work on inflammation at the same time.
Two Moves That Cost You Almost Nothing
Ask for the labs by name. Walking in and saying "I don't feel right" gets you a basic panel and a shrug. Walking in and requesting thyroid antibodies, an ANA, and hs-CRP gets you data that can actually reveal an immune problem. You don't need permission to ask. If the symptoms in this post sound familiar, put those three on your list before your next appointment.
Clear the plastic out of your kitchen. Dr. Davis tells every patient the same thing, and she doesn't soften it. The plastic cutting boards go. So do the storage containers and the spatulas. Wood, glass, and stainless steel are cheap now. Of everything we covered in this episode, this is the fastest way to lower the chemical load hitting your gut every single day.
If You're Tired of Guessing What's Wrong
Autoimmune conditions are some of the most missed diagnoses I see, and most of the time the answers were findable. Nobody ran the right tests. Nobody sat with the patient long enough to connect symptoms that were never random to begin with.
That pattern isn't unique to autoimmunity. It's how most people experience their health.
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